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Thursday, July 24,2014

SAVAGE Love

By Dan Savage
Dear Dan: I’m a gay man who is about to turn 35. Somehow, 30 didn’t bother me, but being halfway to 70 is freaking me out.
Thursday, July 17,2014

SAVAGE Love

By Dan Savage
Dear Dan: My bisexual girlfriend wants to take me to a gay bar. I’m not worried about being hit on, but I feel like hanging out at a gay club would be somewhat dishonest and touristy. Is my apprehension warranted?
Thursday, July 10,2014

SAVAGE Love

By Dan Savage
I am a straight female who was a dominatrix for a while — and out of all the jobs I’ve had, I loved it the most. Working as a secretary — one with a master’s in writing — wasn’t that hard to beat, I guess. But professional dommes aren’t immune to workplace romances, and I fell in love with a client.
Thursday, July 3,2014

SAVAGE Love

By Dan Savage
magnum version in my profile?) I’ve never responded — until the other day. One unicorn request stood out. I wrote back. They seem like cool, smart, interesting people (a 40-year-old liberal married couple). Their profile is funny, and they’re quite attractive! And here I am, not doing anything else or anyone else… and I’m thinking… this could be cool.
Thursday, June 26,2014

SAVAGE Love

By Dan Savage
letter.) My cousin and I have flirted and joked about getting it on together for about 50 years or more. Now she’s divorced and having the time of her life. The other day, she told me what she’d really like is to have a “lesbian experience” with me watching and then joining.
Thursday, June 19,2014

SAVAGE LOVE

By Dan Savage
I’m a 27-year-old straight guy, and I’ve been in a monogamous relationship with an awesome girl for four years. Our sex life is pretty open and healthy, although it has lost some steam since the first couple of years — but that’s normal, right? For the last year or so, every time we have sex, I find myself fantasizing that I’m with someone else.
Thursday, June 12,2014

SAVAGE Love

By Dan Savage
I was combing through some old columns/podcasts and came upon a few instances where you counseled women on selling their used underwear online.
Thursday, June 5,2014

SAVAGE Love

By Dan Savage
I’ve got a question I doubt you’ve ever gotten before. It has a bit of everything: sex-work etiquette, long-distance phone interaction, and a het cis chick anxious not to lose her tolerance badge. Here it goes: A few months ago, I started getting hang-up calls from numbers I didn’t recognize in Boston.
Thursday, May 29,2014

SAVAGE Love

By Dan Savage
I’m a 25-year-old lesbian, and I live with my partner of two years. My family is coming to visit from Texas, where they are part of a hyperconservative church. I’m not out to my mom. While I want this to be a happy occasion, I’m not willing to hide who I am in my own home.
Thursday, May 22,2014

SAVAGE Love

By Dan Savage
I am a genetic male with recurrent questions about my gender identity. Straddling desires to maintain my stature in the professional world, keep my wife at my side, and become who I feel like I am, I have experimented with crossdressing, chastity, antiandrogens, and, prior to all that, steroids.
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