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Thursday, June 25,2015

Savage Love

By Dan Savage
I am a male grad student who is technically engaged to a female grad student. She has numerous positive qualities, but she is repulsed by sex. She is very sensitive about her repulsion and becomes distraught when I broach the subject. She says that even the thought of doing anything sexual with me elicits a panic attack.
Thursday, June 18,2015

SAVAGE LOVE

By Dan Savage
My boyfriend and I both spent a lot of time masturbating when we were young, and pretty much trained our brains to come only one way. He can only come from masturbating furiously, or sometimes from a marathon of jackhammer sex.
Thursday, June 11,2015

SAVAGE LOVE

By Dan Savage
cover! But I am having a crisis of conscience. On one hand, I support a person’s right to be whoever the heck they want to be.
Thursday, June 4,2015

SAVAGE LOVE

By Dan Savage
I’m a 35-year-old divorced man. I’ve been on plenty of dates since my marriage ended, but I invariably get asked this question on or before date number two: “Why did you get divorced?” This is where everything goes to shit. I’m honest: “We got divorced because I cheated on my wife.
Thursday, May 28,2015

SAVAGE LOVE

By Dan Savage
You often mention asexual people. I believe I may be one. I’m a 51-year-old woman. I’ve been separated from my opposite-sex partner for nearly nine years. I’ve been approached by a variety of men, each one interested in becoming “more than friends.
Thursday, May 21,2015

SAVAGE LOVE

By Dan Savage
Yesterday, I found my 5-year-old son putting things up his butt in the bath. This isn’t the first time — and it’s not just a “Hey! There’s a hole here! Let’s put things in there!” kind of thing. The little dude was rocking quite the stiffy while he did it.
Thursday, May 14,2015

SAVAGE LOVE

By Dan Savage
I’m a lesbian who has been pretty successful at online dating. Lately, however, I’ve had a few women contact me who turn out not to be cisgender. I’ve tried to remain open, but I have never been attracted to a trans woman. I don’t rule out the possibility that it could happen.
Thursday, May 7,2015

SAVAGE LOVE

By Dan Savage
Last summer, I reconnected with a high-school teacher I hadn’t seen for a year. We first met when I was 15, and I had nothing but respect for him and his intelligence. I also had a crush on him for the next four years. Fast-forward a year. He is sexting me and sending dick pics and wants to hook up.
Thursday, April 30,2015

SAVAGE LOVE

By Dan Savage
My partner is 31 years older than I am. I know the math: He’ll be 60 when I’m 29. But that isn’t the problem. The issue is he’s been a lifelong bachelor and never been monogamous. He’s fucked hundreds of women and is close friends with a lot of his former fuck buddies.
Thursday, April 23,2015

SAVAGE LOVE

By Dan Savage
I’m an American woman living abroad and have started a relationship with a wonderful man from a Middle Eastern country. We are having a great time exploring what is a foreign country for both of us. The looming issue is sex, of course. He is a moderate Muslim, but he grew up in a strict conservative family and country.
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