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Thursday, February 13,2014


What's an unattractive fella to do?

By Dan Savage
I’m a 24-year-old straight male and I’m unattractive. Physically I’m not bad (not hot, but not ugly), but sadly, I’ve suffered from extreme depression all my life.
Thursday, February 6,2014

SAVAGE Love | Week of Feb. 6

Marriage and competitive rimjobs

By Dan Savage
If you were my boyfriend, RING, and you told me — right after I had defeated you in a rimming contest — that you would marry me if you lost a coin toss, but not because marriage mattered to me, I would never rim your ass again.
Thursday, January 30,2014

SAVAGE Love | Week of Jan. 30

How do you deal with an overly aggressive dom?

By Dan Savage
I’m what was once quaintly called a “woman of a certain age” who started reading your column to broaden my horizons. As a result, some curiosities peeped their heads over the boundaries of my once happily repressed existence. I summoned the courage to join an online BDSM dating site.
Thursday, January 23,2014

SAVAGE LOVE | Week of Jan. 23

Sensitive vaginas and middle-age sex

By Dan Savage
I’ve had sex only three times and have found each time to be incredibly painful — even when the guy’s just using his fingers.
Thursday, January 16,2014

SAVAGE Love | Week of January 16

How to support you gay nephew when he's cranky

By Dan Savage
Dear WHWALB: Your boyfriend isn’t bi, WHWALB, he’s not even hetero-flexible, and he’s made it clear that he’s turned off by the idea of a threesome with another male.
Thursday, January 9,2014

SAVAGE Love | Week of January 9

Searching for the proper verbage

By Dan Savage
I feel like an old fart even asking, but have you heard of this? What is the new term if it’s not OK to say “transgendered” anymore?
Thursday, January 2,2014

SAVAGE Love | Week of January 2

Dating tips for the morbidly obese

By Dan Savage
I am morbidly obese and have been for most of my life. I have never dated. How do I stop being bitter and learn how to develop a romantic relationship?
Thursday, December 26,2013


Week of December 26

By Dan Savage
He said that he doesn’t mind if I get sex from other people, but I want to help him understand that he’s a good person and that sex isn’t a bad thing. How do I do this? We’re both fairly sure that he could be asexual. Can asexual people enjoy sex at all?
Thursday, December 19,2013

SAVAGE Love | Week of December 19

How do you get your boyfriend to propose?

By Dan Savage
In August, he mentioned the possibility of a proposal around the holidays, which are upon us. But when his mom asked if they should go shopping for a ring, he told her no! I am ready for the next phase. He says he is too, but he won’t propose. I don’t get it!
Thursday, December 12,2013

SAVAGE Love | Week of Dec. 12

By Dan Savage
What do you say to someone who conflates a request for STI testing with a lack of trust? —Seeking Truthful Insight