Three young men seek identity in ‘Oriented’

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Oriented follows three gay Palestinian twentysomethings, as they navigate family, love, politics and acceptance.
Amanda Moutinho | Boulder Weekly

As the American presidential race continues to heat up, more and more Americans divide themselves across party lines and political predilections. Yet, few see these divisions as dividing — they see them as unifying: this is my identity, and these are the people who feel the same. Individual identity within a larger whole is one of the most desirable aspects of being human, and it is a topic cinema loves to explore. And not just explore, but empower. Cinema doesn’t just give its subjects a voice, but an undeniable image as well.

That undeniable image is the driving force behind Oriented, a documentary about three gay Palestinian friends who use images — namely viral videos — to effect change during the Israel-Gaza Conflict in 2014.

The three subjects documentarian Jake Witzenfeld follows fit the bill perfectly, and are open, candid and honest to boot: Khader, the son of Muslim mafia now living with his Jewish boyfriend; Fadi, a Palestinian nationalist in love with an Israeli soldier; and Naeem, who has yet to come out to his family.

All three men are gay, in their mid-20s, and the eclectic port city of Jaffa offers cheap housing and a chance to move out from under the thumb of their conservative families. But gentrification has enflamed the delicate Arab/Israeli relations and Khader, Fadi and Naeem are caught in the middle, trying their best to understand, to communicate and to educate. But mostly, they are trying to understand the men they are becoming.

That realization comes across clearest when Fadi falls for an American Jew fighting in the Israeli Defense Forces. Fadi speaks to Witzenfeld’s camera candidly, almost surprised, that he is sleeping with the enemy. For Fadi, politics is a major, if not the major, aspect of his life. But Fadi is young, and the young are full of passion. Part of growing up is challenging that passion in the face of love and attraction. The heart wants what the heart wants, and Fadi’s somewhat shocked eyes are reminders of how jarring that realization can be.

While the issue of identity lies at the core of Oriented, the movie’s most fascinating aspect is its appeal as a piece of playful ethnography. These are not shy subjects, and they allow Witzenfeld to observe the less cinematic moments of their lives. Be it sitting around the living room silently checking their phones, early morning confession sessions where the pleasures of the night gives way to the clear light of day, or simple unfocused conversations over beers on the way to, or coming back from, the nightclub. These moments don’t just color these individuals’ lives, they are crucial to defining them.

Oriented is playing at the 20th Denver Jewish Film Festival at the Mizel Arts and Cultural Center. The MACC is dedicated to “illuminating the Human Experience —” precisely Witzenfeld’s, and his subjects’, goal. There are no solutions in Oriented, just ideas, passions and the blunt, but joyous, aspects of growing up and finding out who you really are.

Oriented – Feb. 21, 5:30 p.m. Mizel Arts and Cultural Center, 350 S. Dahlia St., Denver, 303–316–6323, maccjcc.org. Tickets start at $11.