Connections

Lopsiders

Savage Love

Better after

Dear Dan: In a recent column, you said you never hear from married couples whose sex life got better and more frequent over the...

Baggage

Dear Dan: You ran a letter about a gay man (“Sam”) who has been sucking off his straight friend. Sam said he’s never done...

Blown away

Dear Dan: I’m a straight guy in a LTR with a bi woman. We recently had a threesome with a bi male acquaintance. We...

Retroactive blessings

Dear Dan: Without snooping, I came across texts between my wife “Mary” and a guy “Jeremy” of a very sexual nature. While I would...

Shameful

Dear Dan: I’m a 33-year-old man, and for years I’ve practiced edging. Recently I’ve experimented with long-term edges, where I’ll withhold coming for days...

What works

Dear Dan: I am a 38-year-old gay man with a serious problem. My boy-friend of five years has developed a strange fascination. We’ve always...

Pissy

Dear Dan: I like watersports, and I heard about a guy in a rural area who holds piss parties in his backyard. I found...

Live from the Oriental Theater

Savage Love Live at Denver’s Oriental Theater last week was epic. I fielded sex questions in front of a sold-out crowd, singer-songwriter Rachel Lark...

Pedestrian AF

Dear Dan: I’m a 37-year-old male. I’ve been with my wife for 15 years. I know that passion transitions in a long-term relationship, but...

Crushed

Dear Dan: Married from 28 to 36, single the last three years, and celibate most of the last couple years. The last two years...

Crushed

Dear Dan: I’m a 42-year-old gay man. I’ve been with my husband for 21 years. We met in college and, except for a six-month...

Down there

Dear Dan: Background: I, a 21-year-old male, enjoy receptive fisting. I’ve also had constipation problems all my life. Question: I saw my doctor recently,...
Our sponsors love Boulder!
Our sponsors love Boulder
Our sponsors love Boulder