What happened

Devastation

Savage Love

Orpheum theater

I was honored to appear with Esther Perel at the Orpheum Theater in Vancouver, BC, a few weeks ago to discuss her new book,...

The daddy files

Dear Dan: I’m a 31-year-old gay man who looks 45. Most men interested in me are surprisingly up-front about expressing their desire to include...

Degrading games

Dear Dan: I am a pretty handsome gay (I have been told) and I am dating a gorgeous man. I am 34, and he...

Necking

Dear Dan: In a frank exchange early in our courtship, I told my girlfriend that I have no kinks. As a faithful reader of...

Parental controls

Dead Dan: My father passed away suddenly. I had a very idyllic childhood and was close to my father and my mother (who is...

Poly wants

Dear Dan: I’m a 25-year-old woman currently in a poly relationship with a married man roughly 20 years my senior. This has by far...

It’s bad

Dear Dan: I’m a 22-year-old straight male dating a 23-year-old woman. This is by far the most sexual relationship I’ve been in, which is...

Unanswered questions

I had a blast hosting Savage Lovecast Live at San Francisco’s Palace of Fine Arts. Audience members submitted questions before the show, and I...

Dicks deluxe

Dear Dan: A few months ago, I started dating someone. I made it clear early on that I didn’t feel comfortable being in a...

Sex while separated; Demisexuality?

Dear Dan: My husband and I are currently separated on a trial basis. He took all our condoms when he moved out, and I...

Stranger things

Dear Dan: I’m a lady considering taking on a foot fetishist as a slave. He would do chores around my house, including cleaning and...

Everybody hurts, everybody cries

Dear Dan: My ex-boyfriend and I were together for a year and a half. He is a silver fox who is significantly older than...
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