Savage Love

Calling my one-night stand; Open marriage sharing

Dear Dan: I’m a cis woman in my late 20s. About three months ago, I had my first one-night stand. I’ve noticed my thoughts...

Sorry dude, I’m a ‘lesbian;’ Worried about my stripper friend

Dear Dan: Is it a super douchey move to pretend to be a lesbian to avoid unwanted male attention? I’m a straight single woman...

Twitter taboo; Looking for hope

Dear Dan: I recently synced my phone contacts to my Twitter account. When I was scrolling through the list of people who turned up...

Is a diaper fetish always sexual?

Dear Dan: I’ve been dating a nice guy for a month or so. Sex is good, and we’re faulty compatible in other ways, too....

Good things come in small packages

Dear Dan: I’m a 33-year-old straight guy with a small dick. I have a girlfriend of seven years. When we met, I was really...

Sanitized meeting stories; Bad advice, Dan

Dear Dan: If I first met someone on a hookup site or at a sex party and then we start seeing each other, what’s...

Should I cheat?; Queer peg in a straight hole

Dear Dan: I am a fortysomething bi woman happily married to a newly transitioned 50ish trans woman. I have a history of putting myself...

Giving back for all the porn; Inappropriate dad jokes

Dear Dan: Over the years, I have consumed what I believe to be an average amount of porn for a 44-year-old hetero guy. I...

Sex life dud; Bi guy woes

Dear Dan: Straight male, 48, married 14 years, three kids under age 10. Needless to say, life is busy at our house. My wife...

Should I do it?; Wrong hole!

Dear Dan: I’m a virgin in my late 20s. I’m not waiting until marriage, just for the right person. I’ve dated enough and had...

Mind your business; De-Fox-Newsing

Dear Dan: I have a friend who is getting married. She’s cheated on every guy she’s been with, including her last three husbands. This...

No cheating, just vomit.

Dear Dan: I’ve been aware of my emetophilia since a very young age and have always kept it private. No need to tell me...
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