Savage Love

Sex life dud; Bi guy woes

Dear Dan: Straight male, 48, married 14 years, three kids under age 10. Needless to say, life is busy at our house. My wife...

Should I do it?; Wrong hole!

Dear Dan: I’m a virgin in my late 20s. I’m not waiting until marriage, just for the right person. I’ve dated enough and had...

Mind your business; De-Fox-Newsing

Dear Dan: I have a friend who is getting married. She’s cheated on every guy she’s been with, including her last three husbands. This...

No cheating, just vomit.

Dear Dan: I’ve been aware of my emetophilia since a very young age and have always kept it private. No need to tell me...

Can I buy your underwear?; More non-PC fantasies

Dear Dan: I’m a 49-year-old gay man. I’ve become friends with a 21-year-old straight guy. He’s really hot. He’s had to drop out of...

How do I explain my politically incorrect fantasy?

Dear Dan: I am a twentysomething, straight, cis-female expat. How long do I have to wait to ask my German lover, who is übersensitive...

Savage speaks at the “Uninhibited: About Sex” lecture series

I was honored to speak at JCCSF — Jewish Community Center of San Francisco — last week as a part of their “Uninhibited: About...

No oral; Worship fetish; Men’s feet

Dear Dan: I’m a straight woman in my early 30s, and I just don’t like receiving oral sex. I love giving blowjobs and can...

Finding non-creeps for fantasy play

Dear Dan: I’m a 27-year-old, feminist, conventionally attractive, straightish, GGG woman. Over time, my tastes have changed, and now I find myself more of...

The fine line of rough sex

Dear Dan: I’m your average straight 42-year-old white guy. Married for a little less than a year (second marriage for both). We have an...

Dan keeps it brief

Dear Dan: Are you incapable of concision? Your answers are too long! You blather on, often rehashing the problem (unnecessary!) before giving four words...

I accidentally snooped, now should I confront my boyfriend about what...

Dear Dan: Gay, thirtysomething male in DC. My boyfriend of three years has been acting strange — not taking his antidepression meds, says he’s...
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