Savage Love

Secret bisexuality and dating app usage; Erectile dysfunction meds

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Dear Dan: I’m a 29-year-old man who desires a monogamous relationship. I’m currently in an LTR with a 29-year-old woman. Despite my feelings about...

Soft problem, hard choice

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Dear Dan: My husband is nearly 20 years older than me, which was never an issue early in our relationship. However, for approximately the...

Savage answers questions from Revolution Hall

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Nancy, the tech-savvy at-risk youth, two gimps, Christ on the cross, the Easter Bunny, two weeping women and the Easter Bunny’s smoking-hot leather master...

Private dungeon session?; Mismatched schedule; Bigioted inlaws

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Dear Dan: My boyfriend wants to visit a private gay sex dungeon in Europe this summer but we only want to play with each...

The proper etiquette for throwing someone out of an orgy

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Dear Dan: I’m a queer girl living with a male partner. This weekend, we found ourselves in an after-hours club, made some new friends,...

He’s bi and that’s ok; The sex could be better

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Dear Dan: My BF and I have been dating for two years. He’s 21; I’m 20 (and female). When I noticed my boyfriend wanted...

Finding a play partner; Am I good at it?

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Dear Dan: I’m a woman in my late 40s. In my early 20s, I married a much older man. We did all the requisite...

Is it OK to trust a liar?; Am I too horny?

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Dear Dan: Gay guy here. Met a guy online. He came over. We had incredible sex and then a great conversation lasting several hours....

Questions from the Curious Minds Weekend in Toronto

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I recently spoke at Curious Minds Weekend in Toronto at the Hot Docs Ted Rogers Cinema. Audience members submitted questions on cards before the...

Where does religion fit in kink?

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Dear Dan: I went to Dark Odyssey Winter Fire, the big kink hotel takeover event in Washington, D.C., in February. There was one thing...

Yeasty mouth?; Navigating open relationships

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DearDan: My wife and I have a decent sex life. Pretty vanilla, but we’re busy with work, chore, and life in general with two...

Looking for some spanking recreation; Turned on by getting dumped?

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Dear Dan: I’m a fan from way back. A therapist told me to go out and have some fun — I’m a married woman...