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Savage Love

Secret bisexuality and dating app usage; Erectile dysfunction meds

Dear Dan: I’m a 29-year-old man who desires a monogamous relationship. I’m currently in an LTR with a 29-year-old woman. Despite my feelings about...

Soft problem, hard choice

Dear Dan: My husband is nearly 20 years older than me, which was never an issue early in our relationship. However, for approximately the...

Savage answers questions from Revolution Hall

Nancy, the tech-savvy at-risk youth, two gimps, Christ on the cross, the Easter Bunny, two weeping women and the Easter Bunny’s smoking-hot leather master...

Private dungeon session?; Mismatched schedule; Bigioted inlaws

Dear Dan: My boyfriend wants to visit a private gay sex dungeon in Europe this summer but we only want to play with each...

The proper etiquette for throwing someone out of an orgy

Dear Dan: I’m a queer girl living with a male partner. This weekend, we found ourselves in an after-hours club, made some new friends,...

He’s bi and that’s ok; The sex could be better

Dear Dan: My BF and I have been dating for two years. He’s 21; I’m 20 (and female). When I noticed my boyfriend wanted...

Finding a play partner; Am I good at it?

Dear Dan: I’m a woman in my late 40s. In my early 20s, I married a much older man. We did all the requisite...

Is it OK to trust a liar?; Am I too horny?

Dear Dan: Gay guy here. Met a guy online. He came over. We had incredible sex and then a great conversation lasting several hours....

Questions from the Curious Minds Weekend in Toronto

I recently spoke at Curious Minds Weekend in Toronto at the Hot Docs Ted Rogers Cinema. Audience members submitted questions on cards before the...

Where does religion fit in kink?

Dear Dan: I went to Dark Odyssey Winter Fire, the big kink hotel takeover event in Washington, D.C., in February. There was one thing...

Yeasty mouth?; Navigating open relationships

DearDan: My wife and I have a decent sex life. Pretty vanilla, but we’re busy with work, chore, and life in general with two...

Looking for some spanking recreation; Turned on by getting dumped?

Dear Dan: I’m a fan from way back. A therapist told me to go out and have some fun — I’m a married woman...
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