Savage Love
Savage Love 6/16/22
Dear Dan: My husband and I were at a kink event that required pronouns under scene names. My husband is a cross-dresser and wants...
Savage Love
Dear Dan: I’m trying to date again after back-to-back negative relationship experiences. Experiences that have made me question my own judgment and ability to...
Love expensed
Dear Dan: I’m a 31-year-old queer person living in Europe. I recently met a 46-year-old man. We were visiting the same city for work...
Quick and dirty Q&A
My laptop died last week. My laptop couldn’t die when I was in the office, with capable tech support people close by. Oh, no....
Savage love 5/19/22
Dear Dan: I am a 37-year-old heterosexual woman in a monogamous relationship with a het cis male. Let’s call him “Rick.” We’ve been together...
Open and shut
Dear Dan: Straight guy here in a one-sided open relationship. My wife and I opened our relationship just for her and to females only,...
Quickies
Dear Dan: I'm a heavy sleeper, and my wife knows that, but not so heavy that I don't wake up when she periodically masturbates...
Love and leashes
Dear Dan: I’m a married gay man. I’m nervous about sending this question and my husband is afraid you might answer it. I’m a...
Clap Back
Dear Dan: Bisexual female in an open/monogamish relationship with a heterosexual male. My partner and I have some friends in the swinging lifestyle that...
THIS
Dear Dan: I am a 29-year-old woman and I have a problem when I have sex or masturbate. I always feel an annoying pain, a...
Only for love
Dear Dan: I'm a 28-year-old queer woman. It’s been a while since I’ve been in a relationship, as it was impossible for me to...
Quickies
Dear Dan: My boyfriend and I have not had sex for more than two years. When I first asked him about it, he hemmed...