<![CDATA[Boulder - Weekly - Savage Love]]> <![CDATA[Savage Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> We don’t have to be perfect to date, LACKING, but we do have to be in good working order. It doesn’t sound like either of you qualify. His abuse and abandonment issues, your self-esteem and anger issues: I think you both should address your issues in counseling — with separate counselors — for your own sakes, not for the sake of this relationship.]]> <![CDATA[Savage Love | Week of June 27, 2013]]> Dear Dan: I am a married 54-yearold postmenopausal woman. My libido has diminished significantly, and it takes me much longer to climax.]]> <![CDATA[Savage Love | Week of June 13, 2013]]> <![CDATA[Savage Love | Week of May 30, 2013]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> My husband recently admitted that he masturbates once a day, sometimes twice. My confusion stems from the fact that we have sex once a day, sometimes twice.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> <![CDATA[Savage Love | Week of November 14, 2013]]> Dear Dan: Why am I such a slut? — Girl, Corrupted]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> cover! But I am having a crisis of conscience. On one hand, I support a person’s right to be whoever the heck they want to be.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> You often mention asexual people. I believe I may be one. I’m a 51-year-old woman. I’ve been separated from my opposite-sex partner for nearly nine years. I’ve been approached by a variety of men, each one interested in becoming “more than friends.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> My wife and I have been together for more than 10 years, practicing some kind of nonmonogamy for more than seven. We tried different things — open, dating others, FWBs — but after a bi threesome with another guy a year ago, we knew that was our thing.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> My boyfriend and I have been together three years. We plan to start a family, we are very happy together, we go on many adventures together — all that good stuff. For the past year or so, I feel like I’ve been losing my sex drive. Not just toward him but in general.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[Savage Love]]> In a former life, I was a staunch Republican and voted for antigay ballot initiatives. Then, after a bad divorce 18 years ago, I moved to another state and fell in with an artistic crowd. Over the years, I became close friends with people with vastly different life experiences, and I’ve developed an entirely new attitude toward gay rights.]]>