<![CDATA[Boulder - Weekly - Savage Love]]> <![CDATA[Savage Love | Week of June 20, 2013]]> Dear Dan: I’m a straight guy in my early 30s with an amazing girlfriend of two years. A few months ago, I felt open enough to share my taboo fantasy: father/daughter incest.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> Four years ago, I met a man on a “married but looking” website. We exchanged fantasies, which included wanting to have threesomes and a D/s relationship. He was 19 years my senior.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love | Week of January 2]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> I consider myself one of the lucky ones: happily married for decades, with a long-term girlfriend. GF is at this point part of the family, and while it hasn’t always been an easy arrangement to sort out, it has worked for over a decade.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love | Week of March 20]]> I am a het husband. Before we married, I let my wife know that I loved spanking women and I was not a faithful man. Fast-forward 20 years: She does not like to be spanked and does not want me cheating.]]> <![CDATA[Savage Love | Week of August 8, 2013]]> Dear Dan: I’m a 25-year-old male. After a tragic set of circumstances, I am now the legal guardian of my 15-year-old brother. He’s gay.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> We don’t have to be perfect to date, LACKING, but we do have to be in good working order. It doesn’t sound like either of you qualify. His abuse and abandonment issues, your self-esteem and anger issues: I think you both should address your issues in counseling — with separate counselors — for your own sakes, not for the sake of this relationship.]]> <![CDATA[Savage Love | Week of September 5, 2013]]> Dear Dan: Settle this for us, Dan? Which is the bigger ask: a one-time, once-in-a-lifetime threesome or regular (and pretty damn elaborate) bondage sessions?]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> What is your stance on maintenance sex? I’d never thought about the issue until reading Amy Poehler’s new memoir. I didn’t find anything she said controversial, and was surprised when this quote blew up in the feminist blogosphere: “You have to have sex with your husband occasionally, even though you’re exhausted.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> My fiancée is extremely bothered by me looking at porn. It revolves around insecurities that have gotten so bad that even other girls bother her. (We can hardly go to a beach anymore.) I don’t have any weird relationship with porn — no addiction, no violent stuff, and I look pretty infrequently.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love | Week of January 16]]> Dear WHWALB: Your boyfriend isn’t bi, WHWALB, he’s not even hetero-flexible, and he’s made it clear that he’s turned off by the idea of a threesome with another male.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]>