<![CDATA[Boulder - Weekly - Savage Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> Four years ago, I met a man on a “married but looking” website. We exchanged fantasies, which included wanting to have threesomes and a D/s relationship. He was 19 years my senior.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE | Week of Jan. 23]]> I’ve had sex only three times and have found each time to be incredibly painful — even when the guy’s just using his fingers.]]> <![CDATA[Savage Love | Week of June 6, 2013]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> I’m a 28-year-old pancurious married guy from the Midwest about to move to San Francisco. I’ve been with my wife for 10 years (married four), and we’ve started to explore being monogamish. I am also reexploring my bi attractions. I’ve been thinking a lot about the opportunities for reinvention that our cross-country move might provide.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> I consider myself one of the lucky ones: happily married for decades, with a long-term girlfriend. GF is at this point part of the family, and while it hasn’t always been an easy arrangement to sort out, it has worked for over a decade.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> My husband recently admitted that he masturbates once a day, sometimes twice. My confusion stems from the fact that we have sex once a day, sometimes twice.]]> <![CDATA[Savage Love | Week of June 27, 2013]]> Dear Dan: I am a married 54-yearold postmenopausal woman. My libido has diminished significantly, and it takes me much longer to climax.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love | Week of January 16]]> Dear WHWALB: Your boyfriend isn’t bi, WHWALB, he’s not even hetero-flexible, and he’s made it clear that he’s turned off by the idea of a threesome with another male.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love | Week of Feb. 20]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> <![CDATA[Savage Love | Week of October 24, 2013]]> Dear Dan: I’m a 21-year-old female college student going to school on the East Coast. Two days ago, I broke up with my manipulative, controlling, insecure, long-distance boyfriend of one year.]]> <![CDATA[Savage Love | Week of July 18, 2013]]> Dear Dan: I am a young gay man who has been so freaked out by the idea of catching an STI that I haven’t gotten with anyone for two years.]]>