<![CDATA[Boulder - Weekly - Savage Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love | Week of January 16]]> Dear WHWALB: Your boyfriend isn’t bi, WHWALB, he’s not even hetero-flexible, and he’s made it clear that he’s turned off by the idea of a threesome with another male.]]> <![CDATA[Savage Love]]> My son, who is almost 30 years old, was married four years ago. He just shared with us that for the last three years, he and his wife have been practicing polyamory. They are committed to their relationship but have each had relationships with both men and women.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> I’m a 28-year-old pancurious married guy from the Midwest about to move to San Francisco. I’ve been with my wife for 10 years (married four), and we’ve started to explore being monogamish. I am also reexploring my bi attractions. I’ve been thinking a lot about the opportunities for reinvention that our cross-country move might provide.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> I’m a 26-year-old single bi woman. Sometimes my roommate/best friend and I have drunken threesomes with men. We’ve had some great one-night stands (less scary with a friend!), but recently we slept with a man I’ve been (drunkenly) sleeping with over a period of months, my “friend with benefits.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> Yesterday, I found my 5-year-old son putting things up his butt in the bath. This isn’t the first time — and it’s not just a “Hey! There’s a hole here! Let’s put things in there!” kind of thing. The little dude was rocking quite the stiffy while he did it.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love | Week of March 20]]> I am a het husband. Before we married, I let my wife know that I loved spanking women and I was not a faithful man. Fast-forward 20 years: She does not like to be spanked and does not want me cheating.]]> <![CDATA[Savage Love | Week of June 6, 2013]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[Savage Love | Week of July 18, 2013]]> Dear Dan: I am a young gay man who has been so freaked out by the idea of catching an STI that I haven’t gotten with anyone for two years.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> You often mention asexual people. I believe I may be one. I’m a 51-year-old woman. I’ve been separated from my opposite-sex partner for nearly nine years. I’ve been approached by a variety of men, each one interested in becoming “more than friends.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> My fiancée is extremely bothered by me looking at porn. It revolves around insecurities that have gotten so bad that even other girls bother her. (We can hardly go to a beach anymore.) I don’t have any weird relationship with porn — no addiction, no violent stuff, and I look pretty infrequently.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE | Week of Jan. 23]]> I’ve had sex only three times and have found each time to be incredibly painful — even when the guy’s just using his fingers.]]> <![CDATA[Savage Love | Week of November 14, 2013]]> Dear Dan: Why am I such a slut? — Girl, Corrupted]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]>