<![CDATA[Boulder - Weekly - Savage Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> What is your stance on maintenance sex? I’d never thought about the issue until reading Amy Poehler’s new memoir. I didn’t find anything she said controversial, and was surprised when this quote blew up in the feminist blogosphere: “You have to have sex with your husband occasionally, even though you’re exhausted.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> My fiancée is extremely bothered by me looking at porn. It revolves around insecurities that have gotten so bad that even other girls bother her. (We can hardly go to a beach anymore.) I don’t have any weird relationship with porn — no addiction, no violent stuff, and I look pretty infrequently.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> Four years ago, I met a man on a “married but looking” website. We exchanged fantasies, which included wanting to have threesomes and a D/s relationship. He was 19 years my senior.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> She’s perfect. In her late teens and early 20s, she had a wild sex life. She attended sex parties, had loads of NSA hookups, sexted with random guys she met online, etc. She revealed this to me slowly and carefully out of fear that I’d look down on her, but what she didn’t know is that I have an intense cuckold interest.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[Savage Love | Week of May 23, 2013]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> I’m the bisexual everyone loves to hate because I want to be in a poly relationship with both a man and a woman. I am a woman who is into commitment, loyalty, love, trust and honesty. I am not looking to cheat on anyone.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> My husband recently admitted that he masturbates once a day, sometimes twice. My confusion stems from the fact that we have sex once a day, sometimes twice.]]> <![CDATA[Savage Love | Week of April 18, 2013]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> I’m a 28-year-old pancurious married guy from the Midwest about to move to San Francisco. I’ve been with my wife for 10 years (married four), and we’ve started to explore being monogamish. I am also reexploring my bi attractions. I’ve been thinking a lot about the opportunities for reinvention that our cross-country move might provide.]]> <![CDATA[Savage Love | Week of November 28, 2013]]> Dear Dan: I recently ended a relationship that lasted a year and five months. While I loved this woman, for much of the relationship she was, to varying degrees, depressed.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]>