<![CDATA[Boulder - Weekly - Savage Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[Savage Love | Week of November 28, 2013]]> Dear Dan: I recently ended a relationship that lasted a year and five months. While I loved this woman, for much of the relationship she was, to varying degrees, depressed.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[Savage Love | Week of June 27, 2013]]> Dear Dan: I am a married 54-yearold postmenopausal woman. My libido has diminished significantly, and it takes me much longer to climax.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[Savage Love]]> I lost my dad young and I had a bunch of issues growing up. I’m probably gay, I love the idea of light bondage, and I’ve been this way for as long as I can remember. I feel like I’ve been on a self-discovery thing over the past year and have caught tidbits that bothered me.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> Yesterday, I found my 5-year-old son putting things up his butt in the bath. This isn’t the first time — and it’s not just a “Hey! There’s a hole here! Let’s put things in there!” kind of thing. The little dude was rocking quite the stiffy while he did it.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE | Week of Jan. 23]]> I’ve had sex only three times and have found each time to be incredibly painful — even when the guy’s just using his fingers.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> My husband recently admitted that he masturbates once a day, sometimes twice. My confusion stems from the fact that we have sex once a day, sometimes twice.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love | Week of December 19]]> In August, he mentioned the possibility of a proposal around the holidays, which are upon us. But when his mom asked if they should go shopping for a ring, he told her no! I am ready for the next phase. He says he is too, but he won’t propose. I don’t get it!]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> My fiancée is extremely bothered by me looking at porn. It revolves around insecurities that have gotten so bad that even other girls bother her. (We can hardly go to a beach anymore.) I don’t have any weird relationship with porn — no addiction, no violent stuff, and I look pretty infrequently.]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE LOVE]]> <![CDATA[SAVAGE Love | Week of Dec. 12]]> What do you say to someone who conflates a request for STI testing with a lack of trust? —Seeking Truthful Insight]]>