Hard feelings

Disclosed

Savage Love

Best wishes

Dear Da: I’m a 43-year-old straight woman, and I spent the majority of my 30s celibate. At 40, I realized that while...

Quickies

Dear Dan: I’ve been with my boyfriend for a few months. Prior to dating, I was clear with him that I would...

The liked boys

Dear Dan: My best friend’s father is an avid user of social media. He’s retired and spends most of his day posting...

Workmates

Dear Dan: When I first started dating my girlfriend, I asked her about past boyfriends and she said she hadn’t met the...

Catfishing

Dear Dan: I’m a heteroflexible married cis woman in my 40s. I’m also a POS cheater and a catfish. I really fucked...

Part and parting

Dear Dan: I’m an adult man, and I have developed a trans attraction after following a particular Tumblr blog. That blog is now gone,...

Revolution Hall

Savage Love Live stormed into Revolution Hall in Portland, Oregon. Comedian Corina Lucas absolutely killed it before our sold-out crowd, singer-songwriter Elisabeth Pixley-Fink performed...

Crazy switch Asians

Dear Dan: I’m a straight white woman in my early 30s. In theory, I’ve always been into men of all races — but in...

The sins of the grandfather

Dear Dan: My grandfather was a pillar of the community and beloved by his family. He was also sexually abusive. He died when I...

Loaded question

Dear Dan: Let’s say my kink is edging and I edge myself for a few days leading up to a date. Is it my...

Outer limits

Dear Dan: I’m a gay guy in my late 40s with a straight sister in her early 50s. She’s been married for a bit...

With extra lobster

Two weeks ago, a longtime reader challenged me to create a new sexual neologism. (Quickly for the pedants: You’re right! It is redundant to...
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