Savage Love

Maybe your friend is the weird one; Lacking sex communication

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Dear Dan: I wanted to tell you about something that happened to my friend. (Really!) She was going to bang this dude from OkCupid...

Taking one for the team?

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Dear Dan: I’ve been reading your advice column in the Coast in Halifax for a while, and it seems that most solutions to relationship...

A smatter of questions

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Last week, I spoke at the Wilbur Theater in Boston and the Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute in Troy, New York. Audience members submitted their questions...

Stay or go?; Do I like one more than the other?

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Dear Dan: I write you from Italy, where I follow you through Internazionale. I am a guy in his 30s sexually paralyzed with his...

Put it in your spank bank, but don’t talk about it

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Dear Dan: I am quite the follower on social media — Facebook and Twitter in particular. I make no trolling comments, no #MAGA hashtags;...

Ear sex?; Homeless fantasy sex?; Right context sex?

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Dear Dan: About a year ago, I was pretending to read my boyfriend’s mind and jokingly said, “You want to put it in my...

What do I tell the stripper?; Bye reader

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Dear Dan: My partner and I have been playing with male chastity devices. We’ve been considering going to a strip club while his cock...

Finding the right match; Finding the right job title

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Dear Dan: My brother is a virgin and turning 30 in a few weeks. He said he wants to hire an escort just for...

Answering the runoff

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Earlier this month, we recorded our Savage Lovecast Christmas Spectacular live at Revolution Hall in Portland, Oregon. The audience submitted questions on tiny cards...

More feet; Understanding my attractions; Election blues

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Dear Dan: I’m a 35-year-old man in a serious relationship — the best I’ve ever been in — with a girl I’ll likely marry....

Husbandry

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Dear Dan: I’m a 44-year-old married gay male. I recently found out my 30-year-old husband has been sending dick pics to randoms on Grindr....

Getting back in the gay groove

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Dear Dan: I’m a 37-year-old gay man who just got out of an abusive relationship. We were together five years, moved to Portland together,...