Savage Love
Devastation
Dear Dan: I am at a loss. I am devastated. I just found out my husband has been sexting with another woman....
De-kinked
Dear Dan: I know you and other sexperts say that kinks are ingrained and not something you can get rid of, but...
Pandemic pressures
Dear Dan: I'm a gay guy living in New York in his late twenties. My boyfriend has really been emotionally impacted by...
Toy boy
Dear Dan: I’m positive you’ve written something about this in the past. I have searched your archives but have only managed to...
Quickies
Dear Dan: I'm a 30-year-old straight woman in a three-year relationship with my live-in partner, who is also 30. I love him...
The boyfriend experience
Dear Dan: Sex-positive bi woman here. I have recommended your column to many people over the years to help them feel normal...
Case disclosed
Dear Dan: I could really use your advice. I recently found my boyfriend's HIV meds while I was house sitting for him...
Cum again
Dear Dan: As you can see by my signature, Dan, I’m a linguist. On your podcast you frequently ask researchers “whatchyougot” on...
European adventures
Dear Dan: We're an adventurous, bisexual, non-monogamous, opposite-sex couple with a teenage kid living in Europe. We don't really struggle with finding...
Lesbian drama
Dear Dan: One of my very close friends, a lesbian, has been married for a couple of years now. It’s been nothing...
Q&A from the Savage Love Livestream 2
We hosted our second Savage Love Livestream last week and it was a blast. I ran my mouth as fast as I...
Gay dream believer
Dear Dan: I'm wondering if you can help me with some dream interpretation. If it helps for context, I'm a single 29-year-old...
