Savage Love

Q: I have a quick question about bisexuality. What if one has a preference for dating straight individuals? As a straight woman, I am...

I'm at the point in my life where I'm a caregiver for my parents and my partner. It's exhausting. I don't have an open...

Dear Dan: The sitch: Tend bar with a hot girl who has a boyfriend. Hit on her anyway because I’m that guy. She says I can fuck her but only if her boyfriend gets to watch and eat her out after. I don’t want anything to do with that scene. I was down for some ...

Dear Dan: I recently ended things with a guy I liked because he wanted to stop using condoms, but he balked when I said we should both get tested for sexually transmitted infections. He said he felt I didn’t trust him. I tried to explain that trust has nothing to do ...

Dear Dan: Bi married man here. I was always out to my wife, but two months ago, I came out to our tight circle...

Dear Dan: I love my wife, but I have a lot of resentment, disappointment and insecurity over our sex life. After four years of...

Dear Dan: My husband and I are a straight couple in our early 50s, and we’ve been married for more than 30 years. We were raised to wait for sex till we got married — this was back in the early ’80s — and we did. Our wedding night was pretty disappointing since ...

Dear Dan: I consider myself one of the lucky ones: happily married for decades, with a long-term girlfriend. GF is at this point part of the family, and while it hasn’t always been an easy arrangement to sort out, it has worked for over a decade. Recently, I’ve been ...

DearDan: My wife and I have a decent sex life. Pretty vanilla, but we’re busy with work, chore, and life in general with two...

Dear Dan: I found your column after a Google search. I saw your e-mail address at the bottom and was hoping for some insight....

READERS: A crowd of smart, engaged students packed a theater for Savage Love Live at Centenary College of Louisiana last week. Centenary is a terrific liberal-arts school in Shreveport. Centenary students submitted more Qs than I could possibly A in the 90 ...

Dear Dan: My husband and I were at a kink event that required pronouns under scene names. My husband is a cross-dresser and wants...