Savage Love

What happened

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Dear Dan: I used to be a fan of your column, Dan, but something happened to you. Maybe it’s stress, the current political climate,...

Quickies

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Q: I have a quick question about bisexuality. What if one has a preference for dating straight individuals? As a straight woman, I am...

Breaking up

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Dear Dan: I’m a thirtysomething straight woman married for 16 years. Eighteen months ago, I met a man and there was an immediate attraction....

Shrinkage

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Dear Dan: I’m an otherwisehealthy male of 54. When I was a teen, my cock measured about six-and-a-half inches. Not small, not huge, pretty...

Quickies

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Dear Dan: I’ve been wondering: Since there are lesbians out there who occasionally crave cock, does the reverse also happen? Are there gay men...

Blocked

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Dear Dan: My boyfriend and I were friends for a couple of years (we're both 30-year-old gay men), then I stopped traveling around the...

Living your truth

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Dear Dan: Living my truth permits others in my fairly conservative circles — Christian family struggling to accept a gay son, colleagues in a...

Savage Love: March 21, 2024

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Cis-het dude here in my 30s. I've had to spend several multi-month periods away from my wife over the last couple years for work....

Revolution Hall

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Savage Love Live stormed into Revolution Hall in Portland, Oregon. Comedian Corina Lucas absolutely killed it before our sold-out crowd, singer-songwriter Elisabeth Pixley-Fink performed...

SAVAGE LOVE | Week of Jan. 23

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Dear Dan: I’m a straight 24-year-old female, and I just recently lost my virginity. I’ve had sex only three times (not with a monogamous partner) and have found each time to be incredibly painful — even when the guy’s just using his fingers. I’ve always been ...

Private dungeon session?; Mismatched schedule; Bigioted inlaws

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Dear Dan: My boyfriend wants to visit a private gay sex dungeon in Europe this summer but we only want to play with each...

Big little lies

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Dear Dan: I’m a gay man in my late 20s finishing up a graduate program and dating a man who is 38. The sex...